Matthew Brensilver's Dharma Talks
    
    
              
              
 
            
    
        Matthew Brensilver  
         
         
     
     
 
    
        
                            
      Matthew Brensilver, MSW, PhD, serves on the Guiding Teachers Committee and Board of Directors at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. He was previously Program Director for Mindful Schools and for more than a decade, was a core teacher at Against the Stream Buddhist Meditation Society. Each summer, he lectures at UCLA’s Mindful Awareness Research Center on the intersections between mindfulness, science and mental health. Before committing to teach meditation full-time, he spent years doing research on addiction pharmacotherapy at the UCLA Center for Behavioral and Addiction Medicine. He is the co-author of two books about meditation during adolescence.
        
    
      
 
    
        
            
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        2025-09-18
            Active and Receptive Dimensions of Practice 
    
        2020-03-09
            Addressing Coronavirus with a Dharma View-  Monday Night Dharma Talk 
    
        2021-05-21
            Anatta and its Blessings 
    
        2016-05-09
            Anxiety and Tranquility 
    
        2024-10-16
            Attention and Anicca, Awareness and Anatta (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-09-17
            Attention Models the Object, Mindfulness Models the Attention 
    
        2019-08-15
            Attention, Wisdom, Grief and Love (Retreat at  Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-09-28
            Balancing Equanimity and Compassion 
    
        2024-11-06
            Brief Post-Election Reflections 
    
        2017-05-28
            Bringing Dharma Into Interpersonal and Communal Life (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2013-10-19
            Clinging and the Path of Letting Go 
    
        2018-01-15
            Closing Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-05-16
            Closing Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2019-03-08
            Compulsive Thinking, Concentration & Equanimity 
    
        2024-10-12
            Craving, Compulsion, Non-Freedom (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2023-05-10
            Cycling through All Four Divine Abodes 
    
        2018-01-13
            Day 1: Afternoon Practice Session (part 1) (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-13
            Day 1: Afternoon Practice Session (part 2) (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-13
            Day 1: Evening Practice Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2017-05-23
            Day 1: Instructions and Guided Meditation (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2017-05-23
            Day 1: Metta for Self (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-13
            Day 1: Morning Practice Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2019-10-19
            Day 2 Morning Guided Instructions (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-14
            Day 2: Afternoon Practice Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-14
            Day 2: Evening Practice Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-01-14
            Day 2: Morning Practice Session 
    
        2017-05-25
            Day 3 Instructions and Sitting (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2017-05-26
            Day 4: Metta Sit with Guidance (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2017-05-27
            Day 5: Instructions and Sitting 
    
        2019-10-23
            Day 6 Morning Guided Instructions: Pervasiveness of Feeling (Retreat at Spirit … 
    
        2018-11-21
            Day 6: Sitting with Instructions (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2019-12-17
            Death and the Poignancy of Life 
    
        2024-07-11
            Deep Embodiment 
    
        2014-08-18
            Dharma and Anxiety 
    
        2012-12-29
            Dharma and the Developmental Tasks of Adolescence 
    
        2018-06-14
            Dharma Debate: Samvega versus Softening and Receiving (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-04-17
            Dharma Supports Relationships, Relationships Help Us Get Freer 
    
        2020-05-12
            Dialectics of Practice - Opening and Protection (Online Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2021-10-01
            Dialogue on aspects of freedom. 
    
        2023-10-15
            Duality, Merging, Not-Self and Differentiation in the Interpersonal World (Retr… 
    
        2025-04-18
            Dukkha as Ambivalence in Relational Life 
    
        2014-10-27
            Dukkha Either Hardens or Softens the Heart 
    
        2024-09-29
            Emptiness of Self 
    
        2019-06-05
            Equanimity and Samadhi 
    
        2018-06-16
            Ethical Implications of Mindfulness 
    
        2025-05-12
            Fear, Thinking, Safety and Samadhi (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2015-01-26
            Feedback In The Context of Dharma Practice 
    
        2016-01-01
            Going Home 
    
        2024-09-27
            Grace, Gravity, Surrender and Silence 
    
        2016-04-18
            Grief, Love and Groundlessness 
    
        2022-03-06
            Guided compassion practice: grieving as a factor of growth 
    
        2014-08-18
            Guided Meditation 
    
        2019-03-08
            guided meditation 
    
        2021-05-19
            Guided Meditation 
    
        2021-05-22
            Guided Meditation - changing conditions 
    
        2022-05-18
            Guided Meditation - Grief and Compassion (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2022-05-17
            Guided Meditation on Body and Affect (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2023-10-12
            Guided meditation: all phenomena as false alarms 
    
        2025-10-22
            Guided Meditation: Allowing (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-04-19
            Guided Meditation: Arousal and Valence Signifying Nothing 
    
        2019-06-21
            Guided Meditation: Body and Space (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2019-06-02
            Guided Meditation: Body Settling, Pleasure of the Breath 
    
        2018-06-14
            Guided Meditation: Clinging and Space (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-05-12
            Guided Meditation: Convergence of Insight and Love (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-05-13
            Guided Meditation: dropping secret agendas (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-05-14
            Guided Meditation: Feeling 
    
        2022-03-05
            Guided meditation: feeling as a prediction of risk 
    
        2020-10-06
            Guided Meditation: Feelings and their elaborations 
    
        2025-09-19
            Guided Meditation: Forgiving Body, Mind and World 
    
        2019-06-04
            Guided Meditation: How the world impacts the emotional body 
    
        2024-10-13
            Guided Meditation: In the Presence of Love (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-09-20
            Guided Meditation: Internal and External Sound and Silence 
    
        2024-07-10
            Guided Meditation: Landing in the Breath and Soundscape 
    
        2014-06-23
            Guided Meditation: Mara's Trump Card 
    
        2025-10-21
            Guided Meditation: Relax a Little Further (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-09-17
            Guided Meditation: Relaxing and Letting Feeling be Feeling 
    
        2020-10-03
            Guided Meditation: Settling into the Body 
    
        2025-04-18
            Guided Meditation: Surrendering the Territory of Me 
    
        2023-03-30
            Guided Meditation: Trajectory of your life and trajectory of freedom 
    
        2018-06-16
            Guided Meditation: Turbulence and Peace (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-09-18
            Guided Meditation: Urgency of Feeling 
    
        2025-05-11
            Guided Metta Meditation - Metta for All Beings (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2022-03-03
            Guided Metta practice 
    
        2020-10-08
            Guided Reflection & Meditation: Grief & Compassion 
    
        2024-07-11
            Healing the Self 
    
        2016-12-30
            Intensity, Clinging and Anatta in the teen years (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2017-05-24
            Intentions for Practice and the Jewel of Curiosity (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2025-04-19
            Know Thyself, Release Thyself, Merging 
    
        2023-10-11
            Knowing and Not-Knowing 
    
        2025-04-17
            Landing in the Breath 
    
        2024-05-13
            Language is the hammer and every problem, a nail (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2015-08-17
            Learning from Retreats 
    
        2025-10-23
            Living Alongside Questions (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2022-03-07
            Love and its relation with wisdom. 
    
        2024-07-11
            Love and Space 
    
        2022-05-19
            Love as the Default Position of the Mind 
    
        2022-03-04
            Memory, prediction, Bharatanha, and the present 
    
        2024-09-26
            Metta for Self 
    
        2023-10-08
            Metta Practice 
    
        2018-06-12
            Metta Reflections: Opening to Life Requires Love (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2014-08-19
            Mindfulness in Close Relationships 
    
        2024-07-01
            Mindfulness, Mindlessness, Rumination and the Species of Unconsciousness 
    
        2014-10-20
            Miranda July & The Dharma 
    
        2018-12-10
            Monday Night Dharma Talk 
    
        2019-03-25
            Monday Night Dharma Talk 
    
        2017-10-23
            Monday Night Meditation Talk (Drop-in at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2022-08-03
            Morning sit with instruction (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2014-11-03
            Mortality and the Poignancy of Life 
    
        2023-03-29
            Moved by goodness: Reflections and Guided Metta Meditation (Retreat at Spirit R… 
    
        2023-09-23
            Navigating A.I. from a Buddhist Perspective 
    
        2022-05-16
            No escape other than into the heart (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-07-12
            Not-self 
    
        2018-01-12
            Opening Night: Evening Practice Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2024-09-29
            Plasticity, Call off the search, Unification and Love 
    
        2015-04-06
            Psychotherapy and Dharma 
    
        2015-12-31
            Q&A 
    
        2021-05-20
            Reflections and Guided Heart Practice 
    
        2023-10-13
            Reflections and Guided Meditation on Mudita 
    
        2025-08-18
            Reflections on Freedom 
    
        2025-10-20
            Reflections on Time in Dharma: Surrendering to Time, Healing Time, Not-Making T… 
    
        2024-09-27
            Relaxing the Body and Mind 
    
        2018-06-13
            Samadhi (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2015-02-23
            Self-Love and Selflessness - Part 1 
    
        2015-03-02
            Self-Love and Selflessness - Part 2 
    
        2018-11-24
            Sila as Our Practice in the World (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-10-22
            Sīla, Samādhi, Pañña 
    
        2018-11-23
            Sitting with Instructions (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2014-09-08
            Some Fruits of the Practice 
    
        2016-11-25
            Spirit Rock-Attention, Love and Service 
    
        2016-11-20
            Spirit Rock-Metta in the Post Obama Era 
    
        2016-11-22
            Spirit Rock-Samadhi in the Context of Letting Go 
    
        2023-05-11
            Surrender & Faith (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2019-02-28
            Technology as an Existential Threat to Mindfulness - Matthew Brensilver and Ran… 
    
        2023-05-12
            The anchor is everywhere 
    
        2025-09-19
            The Circuitous Journey to Presence through Past and Future 
    
        2015-12-30
            The Intensity of Being a Teenager 
    
        2019-06-22
            The Interpersonal Dimension of the Dharma (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2020-10-05
            The Parami of Truthfulness 
    
        2019-06-18
            The Story of Jumping Mouse (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2023-03-31
            The Three Characteristics and Love 
    
        2014-12-31
            Things Nobody told Me When I was a Teen 
    
        2015-06-29
            Thinking 
    
        2024-07-11
            Throughlines of Self and Not-Self 
    
        2021-09-30
            Tranquilizing side of the 7 Factors: Agitation and temporal density. 
    
        2020-10-08
            Tuere Sala and Matthew Brensilver in dialogue about wisdom 
    
        2014-10-30
            Unpacking Some of the Fruits of Practice 
    
        2018-11-23
            Untitled (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2018-11-23
            Untitled (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2020-05-14
            Vulnerability, Porousness, Equanimity & Love (Online Retreat at Spirit Rock) 
    
        2014-07-01
            Where Rubber Meets the Road: A Series on Mindful Living 
    
        2016-10-01
            Where You At, Where You Going 
    
        2014-06-23
            Working with Anger 
    
        2020-05-17
            Your Face: The Gaze, Self-view, Intimacy and Letting Go (Online Retreat at Spir… 
    
 
         
     
    
        
            
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        1900-01-01
            Monday and Wednesday Talks 
    
        1900-01-01
            NYI Regular Talks 
    
        2012-12-27
            New Year's Teen Retreat (Walden West) 
    
        2013-10-16
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2014-10-25
            Liberate the Body - Stretch the Mind: Mindfulness Meditation and Yoga Retreat 
    
        2014-12-28
            New Year's TEEN Retreat 
    
        2015-12-27
            New Year's Teen Retreat 
    
        2016-09-26
            Kind Awareness: The Integration of Metta and Vipassana 
    
        2016-11-18
            Thanksgiving Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2016-12-27
            New Year's Teen Retreat 
    
        2017-05-22
            Essential Teachings on the Path of Awakening 
    
        2018-01-12
            Awakening in Every Moment: A Retreat in Mindfulness, Metta and Morality 
    
        2018-06-11
            Essential Teachings on the Path of Awakening 
    
        2018-10-20
            Insight Meditation: The Convergence of  Wisdom and Love 
    
        2018-11-16
            Thanksgiving Retreat 
    
        2019-06-01
            Wisdom and Compassion For Our Time 
    
        2019-06-01
            Wisdom and Compassion for Our Time 
    
        2019-06-17
            Spring Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2019-08-12
            Insight & Loving Kindness 
    
        2019-10-17
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2020-05-11
            Spring Insight: Dharma, Care and Community in Uncertain Times - Online 
    
        2020-10-02
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat with Phillip Moffitt, MA, SEP; Matthew Brensilv… 
    
        2021-05-18
            Spring Insight Retreat with Matthew Brensilver, PhD, Tuere Sala and Brian Lesage 
    
        2021-09-26
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2022-03-02
            Opening to Wisdom and Love: Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2022-05-14
            Spring Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2022-08-01
            Young Adult Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2023-03-28
            The Convergence of Insight and Love 
    
        2023-05-08
            Spring Insight 
    
        2023-10-07
            Fall Insight 2023 
    
        2024-05-11
            Spring Insight: Understand the Mechanisms of the Salutary Effects of Mindfulness 
    
        2024-07-09
            Healing the Self, Loving the Self, Forgetting the Self 
    
        2024-09-25
            Love and Rest 
    
        2024-10-10
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
        2025-04-16
            Ethics and Love in Interpersonal Life 
    
        2025-05-09
            Spring Insight Retreat 
    
        2025-09-16
            Love and Rest 
    
        2025-10-16
            Fall Insight Meditation Retreat 
    
 
         
     
    
        
            
         
        
            
  
         
     
 
    
        
    
	
        
		
			
                
                    
    
      
      
        
           
  2019-03-08 
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      Meditation practice cultivates a diverse set of attentional, emotional and introspective skills.
Central to the practice of mindfulness is the stabilization of attention. But before our attention stabilizes, practice can be overstimulating.
This talk will explore the process through which the mind comes to rest. In developing this steadiness, equanimity (the capacity to fully permit the flow of both pleasure and pain) is a vital skill.
We will see how concentration and equanimity reinforce each other and support a deeper understanding of ourselves. And how this stability, in turn, makes space for the heart to respond with joy and compassion.
      
    
  
  
      
          
            
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