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Cara Lai's Dharma Talks
Cara Lai
Cara Lai spent most of her life trying to figure out how to be happy, or at least avoid total misery, so she sat still with her eyes closed for the majority of her adulthood. Throughout many consciousness adventures including a few mind-bendingly long meditation retreats, she has explored the wilderness of the mind, chronic illness, the importance of pleasure, and lots of other things that she might get in trouble for mentioning here. In the past, Cara has worked as an artist, wilderness guide, social worker and psychotherapist, but at this point she’s given up on being an adult in exchange for an all-out mindfulness rampage. Her teaching is relatable, authentic, funny and sometimes crass, and is accessible for many people. She teaches teens and adults at Inward Bound Mindfulness Education, Spirit Rock, Insight Meditation Society, and UCLA; ultimately hoping to bend spoons with her mind. And to help people be happier.
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2024-03-04
Awakening is for everyone
2025-06-29
Breaking out of Samsara
2024-05-16
Closing Session (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2019-02-18
Faith (and Doubt)
2025-04-02
Gentle Mindfulness Instructions (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2019-12-12
I Return My Life (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2025-04-04
Instructions on Metta for the Difficult Person (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2026-01-17
Introducing Mindfulness of the Body
2024-05-14
Leading with Love
2025-07-31
Loving Yourself is Good Parenting (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2023-05-13
Me, you, and everyone, we know (boundless metta)
2022-05-17
Metta When Stuff is Hard (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2022-07-11
Monday Night Dharma Talk - Embracing Samsara
2025-08-07
Moving with Life (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2024-06-27
Mudita instructions and practice
2023-09-26
On Karuna (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2022-05-19
Opening to Emotions
2026-06-27
Parenting, Outer and Inner, and Healing
2022-12-11
Practice for Average People
2026-01-17
Putting down the burden
2022-06-29
Reclaiming Your Attention
2026-03-14
Renunciation as Freedom: Releasing the Self into Creativity and Care
2026-01-18
Say what you mean, act how you feel, be yourself
2024-06-21
The case for passion
2024-06-20
The five hindrances
2023-08-02
The Four Noble Truths (Retreat at Spirit Rock)
2026-06-20
The perfection of the heart: A case for strong determination
2019-11-23
The Power Of Humility
2024-06-26
The story of the Buddha
2019-11-16
The Upside of Desire
2024-06-19
Touching the earth
2025-04-05
Unpacking Equanimity
2025-07-21
What Really Matters?
2023-05-15
When it hits the fan.
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Select one of Cara Lai's 21 retreats
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1900-01-01
Monday and Wednesday Talks
2019-02-13
Finding Freedom Through Insight Meditation
2019-10-22
Three-Month Retreat - Part 2
2019-12-09
In the Presence of Love: A Metta and QiGong Retreat
2020-01-01
BIPOC Voices - Series
2022-05-14
Spring Insight Meditation Retreat
2022-06-28
Teen Retreat
2023-05-09
The Path to Awakening
2023-07-31
Young Adult Insight Meditation Retreat
2023-09-23
Steadying the Heart: Refuge through the Four Sublime States
2024-03-01
When Awareness Becomes Natural - An U Tejaniya-style Insight Meditation Retreat
2024-05-11
Spring Insight: Understand the Mechanisms of the Salutary Effects of Mindfulness
2024-06-17
Black, Indigenous, and People of Color Retreat – BIPOC
2024-06-25
Teen Retreat
2025-04-01
Steadying the Heart: Refuge through the Four Sublime States
2025-06-28
Teen Retreat – 25TR
2025-07-30
Family Retreat 2025
2025-08-05
Young Adult Retreat
2026-01-16
Peace, Presence, and the Practice of Seeing Clearly - 26WMLK
2026-06-17
Steady Refuge: Annual BIPOC Retreat - 26BIPOC
2026-06-25
Teen Retreat – 26TR