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Retreat Dharma Talks

Steadying the Heart: Refuge through the Four Sublime States

The Buddhist path cultivates four powerful and transformative qualities: kindness, compassion, joy, and balance. These qualities are innate human capacities, and can be developed into steadfast dwelling places for the heart. Known as the brahmavihāras, or “sublime homes,” these states can serve as powerful supports both for deepening concentration and insight on the contemplative path and responding to suffering in these turbulent times. We will explore techniques to develop each of the four sublime states and to release the obstacles that hinder us from living a full life and responding meaningfully to the needs of our world.

Our time together will include silent and guided sitting meditation, walking meditation, Dharma talks, instructions, Q&A, and small group meetings with the teachers. This retreat is appropriate for both beginning and more experienced meditators.

2026-09-08 (7 days) Spirit Rock Meditation Center

  
2026-09-09 Guided Mindfulness of the Body - Arriving on the First Day (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 57:52
Devon Hase
Teachings and guided practice on settling, integrating, arriving.
2026-09-09 The Atmosphere of Practice (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 44:03
Oren Jay Sofer
An introduction to the Brahma Vihāras and to metta as the atmosphere of practice — exploring how kindness gathers us, heals the places where the heart has closed, and liberates.
2026-09-10 Metta for Self (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 44:51
Devon Hase
Teachings and Guided Practice on practicing loving-kindness for oneself.
2026-09-10 A Field of Compassion: or How to Not Make War with Your Bushes (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 51:40
Cara Lai
Pain is unavoidable; suffering is what we add by resisting it. This talk traces that distinction through a rage-filled retreat, an ongoing war with invasive shrubs, and the near enemies — pity, overwhelm, "fierce compassion" — that masquerade as care while keeping suffering at arm's length.
2026-09-11 Touching Compassion Guided Meditation (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 48:29
Oren Jay Sofer
Reflections on compassion, 20 minute guided meditation exploring various methods of compassion, followed by Q&A
2026-09-12 Muditā: How to be a Backup Dancer (Retreat at Spirit Rock) 44:07
Devon Hase
A talk on muditā, the joy that isn't ours alone. After days steadying the heart through warmth, tenderness, and spaciousness, we turn toward the brahma vihara most easily overlooked: the capacity to feel glad simply because someone else is. Through stories of borrowed delight, dancing tigers, and the quiet gladness of showing up to practice, we look at what gets in the way (envy, and its louder cousin, toxic cheer) and what it might mean to let another's happiness warm us too.
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