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Oren Jay Sofer's Dharma Talks
Oren Jay Sofer
Developing a clear understanding of the teachings and learning to fully inhabit the body have been core parts of my Dhamma practice. These areas, as well a strong emphasis on the heart, inform and shape my teaching. The few years I spent training as an Anagarika in the Thai Forest monasteries broadened my understanding of the Buddha's teachings and instilled a profound respect for the Bhikkhu and Bhikkhuni Sangha. All along the way, I've been particularly interested in how other modalities like Nonviolent Communication and Somatics can support our growth in awakening.
2018-06-02 Equanimity in a Sensitive Body (Talk) 31:33
(7 of 15) Reflections on the development of equanimity at the 6 sense doors that feel pleasure, pain, and neutral contacts.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Guided Meditation: Equanimity in a Sensitive Body 28:41
(6 of 15) Brief reflections on equanimity with pleasure and pain followed by guided meditation.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Question and Answer Session 16:19
(5 of 15). Q&A Session from morning - questions on equanimity and Dhamma practice.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Guided Meditation: Equanimity of Being Here 18:02
(4 of 15) A brief guided meditation reflecting on the changes of our lives, the ups and downs, and how after all is said and done we come back to being present, here in a simple way.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Wise Balance with the Conditions of Life 35:09
(3 of 15) An exploration of equanimity arising from wisdom that recognizes the changing, impermanent nature of the eight worldly winds, the conditions of our lives.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Guided Meditation: Gratitude, Ease, and Steadiness 32:46
(2 of 15) A short guided meditation focused on developing inner resources. Includes brief instructions at end for walking meditation focused on developing ease.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-06-02 Introduction to Equanimity 42:13
(1 of 15) Opening talk and overview of equanimity as an essential mental factor on the Buddhist path to awakening.
White Heron Sangha :  Equanimity in Difficult Times
2018-05-23 Taking the Practice Home (Closing Reflections) 13:47
Reflections from Oren on taking the practice home (excerpt of closing session).
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2018-05-22 The Company We Keep: Reflections on Friendship 55:43
The development of the path depends on the relationships and friendships in our life. This talk explores "spiritual friendship" - its many meanings and benefits
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2018-05-21 Metta For All Groups 69:28
Instructions, guided meditation, plus Q&A
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2018-05-18 Guided Metta (Benefactor and Self) 56:29
A short guided practice, plus Q&A
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2018-05-09 Building on Retreat, Taking the Practice Home 20:07
Closing Session (part 4): Short reflections on taking the practice home and deepening insights (with comments from Bart van Melik).
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-09 A Meditation for Difficult Conversations: Guidance from the Suttas 2:37:27
Closing Session - part 1. In this short teaching and guided meditation, we explore how to use the meditation instructions in the Simile of the Saw (Kakchupama Sutta, MN. 21) as preparation and cultivation for difficult conversations.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-05 Reflections on Right Speech 25:45
Brief reflections on right speech and the ethical guidelines offered by the Buddha.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-05 Guided Meditation: Embodied Kindness 36:34
A loving-kindness meditation rooted in bodily awareness.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-05 Guided Meditation: Embodied Mindfulness 29:51
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-04 Opening Talk, Refuges & Precepts 40:48
Opening Reflections on Speech and Relational Dharma(with Bart van Melik), Refuges and Precepts
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Relational Dharma: Waking up Together
2018-05-02 The Middle Way 43:54
Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
2018-04-27 The Spirit of Requests 47:21
A brief introduction to the practice of making requests in Nonviolent Communication.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-27 Guided Mindfulness Meditation 37:11
A guided meditation with a brief overview of mindfulness practice.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-26 Exploring Our Experience with Nonviolent Communication 60:41
Teaching, practice and discussion on emotions: where do they come from? How can we express them constructively? Using the form of making observations, stating feelings and needs.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-26 Guided Metta: Those We Overlook 24:46
A brief guided meditation on cultivating good will towards a "neutral" person or stranger.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-25 Metta for Other, Metta for Self 20:42
A brief guided meditation offering metta for a good friend or benefactor, as well as for oneself.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-25 Introduction to Nonviolent Communication: Core Views 39:56
An introduction to the core view of "human needs or values" in NVC.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-24 Transforming Intention in Spiritual Practice and Relationship 36:02
Reflections on the importance of intention in spiritual practice and in speech, with an emphasis on the Brahma Viharas
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-24 Overview of Mindful Communication & Presence 34:11
A brief overview of the practice of Mindful Communication, with a focus on the first foundation of training in presence.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-24 Guided Meditation: Relaxed & Curious Body Scan 35:23
A simple body scan, with emphasis on approaching the practice with a relaxed, curious and friendly attitude.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-23 Introduction to Metta Practice 35:40
A brief overview of the practice of loving-kindness, in particular as it relates to speech and interactive practice. Includes guidance and instructions.
Sacred Stream Center :  Mindful Communication: A Wise Speech Retreat
2018-04-20 The Role of Presence in Communication 22:15
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue & Healthy Relationships
2018-04-20 What is Real Dialogue? 34:39
A brief exploration of "real dialogue" and the Buddha's teachings on Right Speech.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue & Healthy Relationships
2018-04-20 Guided Meditation: Settling and Arriving 16:10
A short, simple meditation to arrive and settle, ending with a guided reflection on intention.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue & Healthy Relationships
2018-03-26 Closing Q&A 30:27
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Guided Forgiveness Meditation 27:33
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Forgiveness: Freeing the Heart 38:11
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Guided Meditation: Embodied Equanimity Practice 28:55
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Guided Equanimity Meditation 58:07
includes Question & Answer
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Equanimity: A Wise and Balanced Perspective 47:24
Reflections on the Brahma Vihara of equanimity
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-26 Guided Mindfulness Meditation 14:11
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Guided Meditation on Compassion (with Q&A) 65:30
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 The Power of Kindness and Compassion 38:23
Reflections on compassion, its cultivation, strength, and potency as a source for resilience.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Mindfulness with Breathing 30:36
A short guided meditation on settling and connecting with the breath.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Question and Answer (Brahma Viharas) 30:51
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Guided Meditation - Joy and Gratitude 33:33
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Resilience through Joy and Gratitude 33:22
Exploring the qualities of mudita (empathic / appreciative joy) and gratitude as sources of resilience.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-25 Guided Meditation: Breathing through Compassion 34:04
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Question and Answer: Metta 28:28
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Expansive Metta - Guided Practice 37:53
Visualization of expansive, radiant lovingkindness in all directions.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Guided Metta-Good friend 36:12
Guided loving-kindness meditation
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Reflections on Resilience and the Heart 29:49
A Dharma reflection on the aspects of practice that bring resilience.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Guided Metta Meditation (with Instructions) 62:14
Lovingkindness practice with phrases for a mentor or benefactor
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 The Contemplative Path and Resilience 34:13
Reflections on the Brahma Viharas in the contemplative path of Buddhist practice.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-24 Guided Meditation - Settling and Arriving 18:14
A brief guided meditation to settle and arrive.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Strengthening Resilience, Finding our Home
2018-03-13 Equanimity 44:51
The series on the Seven Awakening factors concludes with Oren J. Sofer’s talk on the quality of equanimity. Sofer tells us that this quality develops slowly among the other factors and is considered one of the highest attainments in Buddhist practice. The fore-taste of evenness and balance can be considered a glimpse into the mind of an awakened being.
Insight Meditation South Bay - Silicon Valley
In collection: Seven Factors of Awakening
2018-03-05 Monday Night Dharma Talk 1:14:24
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2018-01-19 Developing Compassion & Skill with Pain 25:26
Exploring skillful relationships to pain, with a focus on compassion. (Segment 8 of 9. For more audio talks in this series, please contact Oren.)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Meditation for Pain Management
2018-01-19 What is Pain? 21:05
An initial exploration to key concepts for the day. (Segment 3 of 9. For more audio talks in this series, please contact Oren.)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Meditation for Pain Management
2018-01-19 Opening Meditation 17:43
Arriving, settling, discerning an intention for the day. (Segment 2 of 9.For more audio talks in this series, please contact Oren).
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Meditation for Pain Management
2018-01-19 Welcome and Introduction to Meditation for Pain 10:38
Welcome and brief introduction to day. (Segment 1 of 9)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Meditation for Pain Management
2017-12-10 Balance & Strength in Difficult Conversations: The Simile of Saw 40:22
An exploration of MN.21, The Simile of the Saw as a teaching on right relationship and wise speech.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-09 The Deep Freedom of Human Needs 59:50
How do hold the teachings on letting go, non-attachment and non-self with the reality of having needs as a human being. What are needs and how do we relate to them with wisdom in a world that is beyond our control, neither suppressing and denying them nor becoming overly fixated or identified with them?
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-09 Guided Meditation: Exploring Needs 32:38
Using attention to identify an unmet need, and to shift to recognizing what matters at the core independent of any situation, time, person, place, or thing.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-08 Crafting our Words, Shaping the Heart 55:28
Right Speech is a key factor in the cultivation of the Noble Eightfold Path, shaping the heart and mind even as the heart-mind shapes our speech. Our intention is the decisive factor in determine the direction and shape of our speech, our heart and our mind.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-08 Guided Meditation: Arriving and Opening to Experience 44:58
Early morning guided meditation introducing the practice of samatha-vipassana.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-07 Words that Lead to Awakening: Right Speech and the Capacity to Connect 62:10
We are social creatures with the capacities for connection, empathy, and understanding. This talk introduces the practice of Right Speech as an essential part of the path to awakening.
Barre Center for Buddhist Studies Right Speech: Words That Lead to Awakening
2017-12-06 Technology, Meditation & Relationship: Waking Up in the Modern World 55:00
Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
2017-12-05 Why Relationship Matters: Freeing our Minds, Freeing our World 55:04
The teachings of Buddhism are often understood as an individual practice of psychological and spiritual liberation. How do these teachings and practices apply to transforming our relationships and our society? What is the freedom promised by the Buddhist path and how does it relate to issues of systemic oppression and collective suffering?
New York Insight Meditation Center NYI Regular Talks
2017-12-03 Closing Q&A 29:42
Question and answer session: equanimity and social change; wisdom with decisions; and other questions on practice in daily life.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-03 Cultivating Practice, Expressing Dharma 39:18
Closing talk: Dhamma practice is a way of life that can be cultivated and expressed in all activities. Suggestions for going home and bringing the practice into life.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-03 Guided Meditation: Receiving Experience 29:13
Final guided meditation of retreat
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-02 Held in Awareness: Calming Factors of Awakening 54:28
The calming factors of awakening support the mind to relate to experience with a balanced, steady awareness.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-02 The Poetry of Sound: Guided Meditation & Instructions 52:48
Using sound to explore feeling tone and reactivity.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-01 Coming Close to Experience: Arousing Factors of Awakening 52:36
How to arouse the energizing factors of awakening, which help bring the attention close to experience in an intimate way.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-12-01 Our Duty is to Observe: Instructions and Guided Meditation 60:15
Instructions on practicing with thoughts and emotions.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-11-30 No Problem Hindrances 57:43
The hindrances are part of the inner landscape on the journey to wholeness and awakening. When we recognize them with mindfulness, they don't need to be a problem.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-11-30 Instructions and Guided Meditation: Establishing the Anchor 56:02
Instructions for using an anchor to settle the mind and gather the attention, connecting and sustaining the attention.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-11-29 Just Enough Mindfulness 54:20
Back to basics: What is mindfulness? How does it function? And how much mindfulness do we need to practice?
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-11-29 The Value of Retreat: Opening Talk 56:36
The challenges, gifts and value of retreat, as well as suggestions for how to approach the practice.
Mount Eden Retreat Center :  Cultivating Inner Freedom
2017-10-28 Slow and Steady: Establishing Successful Meditation Techniques - Part 3 Afternoon 1:41:51
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-28 Slow and Steady: Establishing Successful Meditation Techniques - Part 2 Morning 33:59
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-28 Slow and Steady: Establishing Successful Meditation Techniques - Part 1 Morning 1:13:59
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-08 Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue and Healthy Relationships - Part 2 afternoon 2:59:12
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-08 Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue and Healthy Relationships - Part 1 morning 3:09:52
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-07 Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue and Healthy Relationships (part 2) 2:53:13
Combination of the core guidelines for Wise Speech offered by Buddhist Tradition, as well as the contemporary discipline of Nonviolent Communication. Part 2 of 2 (afternoon)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-10-07 Mindful Communication: How to Create Real Dialogue and Healthy Relationships (part 1) 3:13:53
Combination of the core guidelines for Wise Speech offered by Buddhist Tradition, as well as the contemporary discipline of Nonviolent Communication. Part 1 of 2 (morning)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-08-20 Refuge, Refugees & Charlottesville: Dharma in 2017 40:08
Reflections on what it means to walk the path of Dharma in America in 2017, examining the key practice of taking refuge as a support for meeting the challenges of our times.
Insight Meditation Center of the Mid-Peninsula
2017-06-18 Dharma Practice as Play 58:06
Spiritual practice can be a serious affair, yet having a sense of playful interest and joy is essential. This talk explores the parallels between formal meditation practice and play.
Sacramento Buddhist Meditation Group
2017-06-03 Wise Decisions 8: Equanimity with the Outcome 54:00
Closing talk: Developing wisdom to find equanimity with the outcome/results of our decisions; includes guided equanimity practice.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center The Dharma of Decisions, Daylong program at Spirit Rock with Oren J. Sofer
2017-06-03 Wise Decisions 2: Opening Talk 34:30
Spirit Rock Meditation Center The Dharma of Decisions, Daylong program at Spirit Rock with Oren J. Sofer
2017-06-03 Wise Decisions 1: Opening Reflection 17:14
Spirit Rock Meditation Center The Dharma of Decisions, Daylong program at Spirit Rock with Oren J. Sofer
2017-05-23 Finding Balance, Sustaining Wise Action 57:32
Equanimity arises from understanding the nature of this world, and provides the balanced perspective needed to inform and sustain long service.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2017-05-20 Running the River, Handling Hinderances. 58:17
Handling the currents of the mind with kindness and mindfulness.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2017-05-18 Guided Mindfulness Practice 1:20:53
Basic Instructions for Mindfulness
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat
2017-05-08 The Beauty of Integrity, Monday night drop-in class at Spirit Rock 54:43
Monday night drop-in class at Spirit Rock
Spirit Rock Meditation Center
2017-03-26 A Path of Happiness: The Gradual Training (Morning Session) 3:04:21
Many are drawn to Buddhism and spirituality with a keen interest in meditation. Yet before offering any meditation instructions, the Buddha guided his disciples in a progression of practice known as The Gradual Training. This training provides a step-by-step approach to living a life of meaning and inner happiness, and culminates in the highest fruit of contemplative practice – Awakening. During this day of integrated practice, we explored these essential aspects of the Buddhist path as a ground for happiness and the foundation of meditation.
New York Insight Meditation Center
2017-03-26 A Path of Happiness: The Gradual Training (Guided Meditation) 23:22
Many are drawn to Buddhism and spirituality with a keen interest in meditation. Yet before offering any meditation instructions, the Buddha guided his disciples in a progression of practice known as The Gradual Training. This training provides a step-by-step approach to living a life of meaning and inner happiness, and culminates in the highest fruit of contemplative practice – Awakening. During this day of integrated practice, we explored these essential aspects of the Buddhist path as a ground for happiness and the foundation of meditation.
New York Insight Meditation Center
2017-03-22 Five Ways to Transform your Meditation Practice 54:00
Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
2017-03-20 Compassion, Willingness and Courage 53:40
We are deeply connected to one another and all of life. When we are willing to meet pain and suffering with awareness, to feel what is present in our hearts, the door to compassion and awakening can open.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Strengthening the Heart, Cultivating Kindness: Metta Retreat
2017-03-19 Instructions: compassion practice 58:33
Compassion is the ability to meet pain with caring tenderness. Formal practices strengthen and heals the heart. (Includes question and answers)
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Strengthening the Heart, Cultivating Kindness: Metta Retreat
2017-03-18 The strength of Kindness 58:16
Our hearts and minds can be shaped and trained to meet experience with kindness. Metta offers strength as a resource and a doorway to happiness and connection.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Strengthening the Heart, Cultivating Kindness: Metta Retreat
2017-03-18 Metta Practice: Basic Instructions 2:37:45
Cultivating the ground, using phrases for metta practice.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Strengthening the Heart, Cultivating Kindness: Metta Retreat

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