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Dharma Talks
2015-06-20 Lovingkindness: the Path of Peace 46:40
Ayya Anandabodhi
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2015-06-14 Guided Loving Kindness Meditation 41:31
Pat Coffey
Extending loving kindness to self
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Art of Mindful Living: Insight Meditation Retreat for Experienced Students

2015-06-13 Metta meditation (loving kindness) 44:08
Matthew Daniell
Wishing well: for self, an easy being, a diversity of beings (spontaneously chosen) and all beings
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Art of Mindful Living: Insight Meditation Retreat for Experienced Students

2015-06-04 Day three: Guided loving-kindness practice 40:08
Sally Armstrong
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Essential Teachings of the Path of Awakening

2015-06-03 Day Two: Beginning Loving Kindness Meditation 30:18
Tempel Smith
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Essential Teachings of the Path of Awakening

2015-05-22 Natural Liberation 45:42
Nina Wise
Nature of Mind and Metta. Awakening is the deepest form of relaxation. From the awakened mind, lovingkindness arises naturally.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Natural Liberation: A Buddhist Insight Meditation Retreat

2015-05-02 Loving Kindness Meditation for Loved One and Oneself 33:14
Catherine McGee
Gaia House Return to the Boundless Heart

2015-04-26 Introduction to Metta, Loving-Kindness 43:57
Sharon Salzberg
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2015-04-26 May You Be Filled With Loving-Kindness 44:19
Ayya Anandabodhi
Chanting and guided meditation
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Listening to Natural Law: Monastic Retreat

2015-04-18 The Power of Loving Kindness (Introduction to Metta Practice) 2:00:15
Sharon Salzberg
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2015-04-18 Lovingkindness 21:02
Sharon Salzberg
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2015-04-17 The Path To An Open Heart 46:30
Winnie Nazarko
In loving-kindness practice, we learn to gradually extend goodwill to those we don't organically like. Insight (vipassana) practice follows a parallel progression, as we learn to include more of our "stuff" as meditation objects.
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge April 2015 at IMS - Forest Refuge

2015-03-01 Introduction to Loving-Kindness Meditation 35:40
Heather Sundberg
- How metta is a practice of intention and concentration - How to work with metta difficulties and cycles of purification - How to develop authentic metta phrases - Introduction of the metta muses (categories)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center March Insight 1 Month Retreat

2015-02-25 Joy and Graditude 52:53
Lila Kate Wheeler
Focusing on the goodness in oneself, others and life as support for loving kindness and compassion
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Metta: Lovingkindness Retreat

2015-02-18 Thinning of the Self 3 67:32
Donald Rothberg
After a brief review of the last two talks - on the general theme of "not-self" and two ways of practicing (opening to the flow of experience, examining the "thick" self) we look at further ways of practicing including being aware of the particular constituents without adding "my" and "mine"; cultivating heart practices such as lovingkindness, compassion, forgiveness and empathy and opening to a "pure awareness" what has been called in the Thai Forest tradition, the "primal" or "radiant" mind.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Monday and Wednesday Talks

2015-02-12 Continuing our exploration of the Brahma Viharas, 2nd in a series of 4: Karuna (Compassion) 57:52
Kate Munding
Series talks: 1. Metta (Loving Kindness) 2. *** Karuna (Compassion 3. Mudita (Joy with others) 4. Upekkha (Equanimity)
Insight Meditation Community of Berkeley IMCB Regular Talks

2015-02-05 "Meeting our dukkha with mind and heart - How the Brahma Viharas give our awareness the strength and openness to stay with the difficult." Brahma Viharas Series Talk 1st out of 4: Metta (Loving Kindness) 52:25
Kate Munding
Series talks: 1. *** Metta (Loving Kindness) 2. Karuna (Compassion 3. Mudita (Joy with others) 4. Upekkha (Equanimity)
Insight Meditation Community of Berkeley IMCB Regular Talks

2015-01-18 Lovingkindness, Equanimity, and Daily Life Practice 67:42
Donald Rothberg
In our practice, we aspire toward a kind of wholeness, with no part of our life left out. In this talk, we explore two ways of developing more of such wholeness - (1) through connecting metta with mindfulness and wisdom, here examined especially in connecting metta and equanimity; and (2) through connecting formal metta retreat practice to everyday life practice.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta

2015-01-15 Lovingkindness, Compassion, and Forgiveness 65:37
Donald Rothberg
On Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s birthday, we explore how to extend the awakened heart of Metta when there is pain or distress or difficulty. In particular, we examine the practices of compassion and forgiveness, with Dr. King's work and life as a reference point.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta

2014-12-12 Reflection on the Satipatanna sutta and the Anapanasatta sutta 57:31
Ajahn Sucitto
Sati - the quality that allows remembering; different types of bodies we can experience inwardly through mindfulness of our physical senses and the mind; cultivating feelings from honesty, calm, patience and metta/ loving kindness - cultivating the citta/ heart; four places to live in a complete practice; wise attention; what do I feel/ feel like? Sankharas or energies / vitalities in the body; feeing oneself from the trap of the senses using the body of the breathing ; what knows how to breathe? Cultivating the experience of anapanasati - purifying through breathing. Discovering and working with tensions in the body - widen and soften. Breathing calm and patience into the body, nursing the body.
Young Buddhists Association of Thailand :  Ajahn Sucitto YBAT Silent Retreat

2014-10-31 Widening Circles-Practicing Metta in Everyday Life, in the World 63:10
Donald Rothberg
We explore ways to bring the formal practice and spirit of metta(loving kindness) into our individual, relational and collective practice in the world; with some suggestions, poems and stories.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta (Lovingkindness) Research Retreat

2014-10-26 Lovingkindness as the Key to Liberation 57:08
Sylvia Boorstein
This introduction to a Metta retreat presents the intention of practice (liberation and happiness), the techniques of practice, and the explanation for why these techniques work.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta (Lovingkindness) Research Retreat

2014-08-31 Metta (Loving Kindness) Practice 41:03
Anushka Fernandopulle
Cultivating the heart - metta in different directions
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Uncovering Innate Freedom: Labor Day Meditation Weekend

2014-08-24 Real Happiness: at Work and in Life: Afternoon Part I, Talk on Lovingkindness & Instructions on Metta Walking Meditation 27:24
Sharon Salzberg
True North Insight TNI Regular Talks

2014-08-08 Guided meditation: Lovingkindness 40:54
Pascal Auclair
True North Insight Coming Back to our Senses

2014-08-08 Guided Brahma Vihara Meditation 45:46
Deborah Ratner Helzer
Loving kindness with equanimity and compassion
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Awareness with Wisdom: Insight Meditation Retreat

2014-08-06 Metta, Wisdom and Mindfulness 60:51
Mark Nunberg
Loving kindness is an important support for the work of wisdom and mindfulness
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Awareness with Wisdom: Insight Meditation Retreat

2014-07-22 The Rebellious Path of Freedom from Habits of Mind 42:49
Jason Murphy
This talk was given as a part of the series "Where Rubber Meets the Road: A Series on Mindful Living." Vipassana takes our untrained mind as a starting point -- with its unruliness, hindrances, clinging and aversion -- and gives it a clear and systematic way of developing awareness. With practice, this awareness of what's happening within us and around us in any given moment is the key to not being a slave to our thoughts. It also teaches us to rebel against, or turn away from, our mind's tendencies towards greed, hatred and delusion; and instead, to incline our mind towards openness, freedom from attachment, freedom from suffering, loving-kindness, compassion, wisdom, and equanimity. This is the liberating power of awareness and mindfulness.
Insight Meditation South Bay - Silicon Valley Tuesday Talks
In collection: Where Rubber Meets the Road: A Series on Mindful Living

2014-07-21 Energy 55:13
Martine Batchelor
Exploring effort and presenting the connection between concentration and loving kindness.
Gaia House Study Retreat - A Secular Buddhist Retreat

2014-07-11 Removing Veils from the Heart 54:56
Sharda Rogell
Exploring what covers over our innate goodness, including near and far enemies of loving kindness (metta), attached love and hate, and how to uncover the beautiful qualities of our hearts.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta Retreat

2014-07-11 Guided Loving Kindness-Benefactor 42:43
Anushka Fernandopulle
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta Retreat

2014-07-10 Kindness is What Matters 50:42
Sally Armstrong
The essence of Metta is kindness, to ourselves and to all experience. This talk explores how and why we develop loving-kindness.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta Retreat

2014-07-10 Guided Loving Kindness on the Body 42:39
Sharda Rogell
Brief talk and guided meditation
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Metta Retreat

2014-05-17 Authentic Relationship 40:25
Thanissara
Wisdom informs compassion. Meditation on benevolence and loving kindness
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center An Integrated Awakening: Insight Meditation Retreat

2014-04-21 Practicing With Difficult Emotions 61:10
Donald Rothberg
We explore, through stories, poems and teachings, four inter-related ways to practice with difficult emotions, 1- using antidotes, 2- cultivating the "heart practices" of loving-kindness, compassion, joy, forgiveness, etc, 3- cultivating mindfulness and 4- bringing wisdom to the experience
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Awakening in Service & Action: A Study Retreat on Socially Engaged Buddhism

2014-04-18 Heart Body 42:36
Ajahn Jayanto
Reflections on body contemplation and loving kindness.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Holistic Awareness: Monastic Retreat

2014-03-09 Kalyana Mitta Half-Day workshop with James Baraz and Elad Levinson 27:17
James Baraz
James Baraz talking about Kalyana Mitta, exploring the idea, "What is 'Spiritual Friendship'?" The word "Mitta" is related to "Metta" or lovingkindness. Mitta means friend, Kalyana is Spiritual. So, KM is a Spiritual Friends group. This term is particularly used in the Theravada tradition to talk about the relationship we have with each other to have that third refuge in the sangha really flourish
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2014-02-07 Guided Heart Meditation: Lovingkindness 36:20
La Sarmiento
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC 2014 IMCW Women's Retreat: The Heart of Buddhist Meditation

2014-02-06 The Liberating Power of Loving-kindness 50:56
Brian Lesage
Loving-kindness offers qualities of heart that transform our life and our spiritual practice.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center February Month Long Retreat - 2014

2014-02-05 Part 1: Universal Faces of Love 1:24:25
Tara Brach
Lovingkindness, or metta, is the first of the four divine abodes in buddhist teachings. This talk explores the habitual patterns of fears and wants that obscure this innate quality of heart and key ways that we awaken ourselves to its luminous presence.
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC IMCW Wednesday Evening Talks

2014-01-18 The Eleven Benefits of Metta 54:32
Heather Sundberg
The Buddha taught that there are 8 ways to cultivate metta, which manifest into 11 benefits. The talk includes numerous stories from around the world, including the story of how the Buddha came to teach lovingkindness.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center January Metta Retreat

2014-01-01 Guided compassion and Loving Kindness Meditation 39:40
Pascal Auclair
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Embodying the Heart of Wisdom: New Year’s Retreat

2013-12-08 Closing Talk - Loving Kindness for all Beings 58:55
Yanai Postelnik
Gaia House Lovingkindness - A Metta Meditation Retreat

2013-12-07 The Heart of Lovingkindness 55:31
Yanai Postelnik
Gaia House Lovingkindness - A Metta Meditation Retreat

2013-12-07 Guided Meditation - Lovingkindness for Ourselves and an Easy Person 28:42
Yanai Postelnik
Gaia House Lovingkindness - A Metta Meditation Retreat

2013-12-07 Instructions - Lovingkindness for Ourselves 51:06
Yanai Postelnik
Gaia House Lovingkindness - A Metta Meditation Retreat

2013-10-05 Workshop: Lovingkindness 8:21:26
Sharon Salzberg
Metta
Common Ground Meditation Center

2013-10-03 Introduction and Guided Lovingkindness: Receiving the Love from our Benefactors 38:18
Sharda Rogell
There are ordinary people in our life that care about our well-being. This guided meditation supports us to recognise and receive their care. (Adapted from John Makransky, in Awakening Through Love)
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on Love, Joy, Compassion and Equanimity

2013-10-02 Metta (Lovingkindness): Allowing the Veils to Fall Away 53:18
Sharda Rogell
A talk on how the Buddha's emphasis on loving kindness begins to dissolve the ego's confusion and awakens the heart to its natural expression of love.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on Love, Joy, Compassion and Equanimity

2013-09-13 Guided Metta Meditation 61:52
Winnie Nazarko
Some overview comments about Metta (loving kindness), followed by real time meditation instruction for this practice. Q&A afterwards
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Three Month - Part 1

2013-09-08 Lovingkindness Practice 51:19
Rick Hanson
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2013-08-25 Lovingkindness practice 17:25
Kevin Griffin
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2013-08-20 Introduction to Lovingkindness Practices - Week 2 - Talk, Meditation and Q&A 1:30:43
Mark Nunberg
Class
Common Ground Meditation Center

2013-08-13 Introduction to Lovingkindness Practices - Week 1 - Talk, Meditation and Q&A 1:24:48
Mark Nunberg
Class
Common Ground Meditation Center

2013-07-29 Loving Kindness Meditation 45:35
Matthew Daniell
Includes easy being, self, friend, neutral person and all beings
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Investigating Life: Insight Meditation Retreat for 18-32 Year Olds

2013-07-14 Obstacles to Unconditional Love (Metta) 51:14
Mark Coleman
What stops us from resting in the heart of love. What hindrances arise in meditation when cultivating metta? This talk explores the power of loving kindness, its obstacles and how to work with them top liberate the heart.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Heart of Love Metta Retreat

2013-07-06 Guided LovingKindness Meditation - LovingKindness for the Loved One and For All Beings 34:01
Leela Sarti
Gaia House The Liberating Intimacy of Being Who You Are

2013-07-05 Guided Loving Kindness Meditation - Loving Kindness for Oneself 39:00
Leela Sarti
Gaia House The Liberating Intimacy of Being Who You Are

2013-06-18 The Kind Heart 57:57
Joseph Goldstein
The experience and cultivation of loving kindness in our practice and in our lives.
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge June 2013 at IMS - Forest Refuge

2013-06-08 Metta/Lovingkindness Discussion and Guided Practice 22:04
Jesse Maceo Vega-Frey
Introduction to loving kindness practice and guided instructions.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Liberation of Heart and Mind: Lovingkindness and Insight Weekend

2013-06-05 Evening Talk- Day 6 - Remember What You Love 41:28
Ayya Medhanandi
To harvest the real riches of the journey, seek refuge and protection in wisdom; and gain profound peace and happiness through the practice of loving-kindness, compassion and forgiveness. These qualities of reconciliation uphold virtue, concord, care and respect so that we can befriend what is noble and realize the truth for ourselves. Even in the darkest hour, remember what you love, awaken the highest from within you, and light the path to freedom.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Holistic Awareness: A Monastic Dana Retreat

2013-05-25 Retreat - The Story of Loving Kindness 28:56
Bob Stahl
Insight Santa Cruz

2013-05-17 Guided Loving kindness Meditation with Benefactors 35:54
Sharda Rogell
A guided meditation where one receives the wishes from people who care about you and are extending their wish for your happiness and well- being. Includes people from ordinary life as well as spiritual benefactors. (Phrases adapted from John Makransky
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on the Divine Abodes

2013-05-17 Introduction to Loving kindness Meditation with Benefactors 2:38
Sharda Rogell
Recognition of the wholesome states of mind is important in their cultivation. Mindfulness of the body is encouraged as a support.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on the Divine Abodes

2013-05-16 Lovingkindness 55:00
Greg Scharf
An overview of the qualities of Loving kindness emphasizing the natural luminosity of the heart. Begins with chanting of the first part of the Karaniya Metta Sutta.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on the Divine Abodes

2013-05-16 Guided Meditation on Loving Kindness (Metta) 39:48
Lila Kate Wheeler
Kindness and friendliness for oneself, a dear person, beings nearby and all beings
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on the Divine Abodes

2013-05-16 Introduction to Loving Kindness (Metta) Meditation 18:04
Lila Kate Wheeler
A concise discussion on loving kindness or Metta Bhavana
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center The Flavors of Kindness: A Retreat on the Divine Abodes

2013-05-12 Guided Loving Kindness Meditation 51:03
Akincano Marc Weber
Gaia House Practising Presence - Touching the Still Heart

2013-05-10 Boundless Metta in Difficult Times - A Guided Loving Kindness Meditation 41:28
Ayya Medhanandi
We can develop the boundless quality of metta in difficult conditions.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Waking Up to the Peace in Our Hearts: Monastic Retreat

2013-05-09 Pointing out the Radiance 58:20
Trudy Goodman
Dharma teachings on conflict and kindness, identity and loving awareness of who we truly are.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Spring Insight Meditation Retreat

2013-05-08 Remembering Being 1:14:51
Tara Brach
Our fear-based doings block us from realizing the formless dimension of our Being, and living from that source of wisdom and love. This talk explores the habitual control strategies that keep us from presence; and the role of mindfulness and lovingkindness in reconnecting with the ground of Being.
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC IMCW Wednesday Evening Talks

2013-04-29 Guided Metta/Loving Kindness Meditation with short introduction 57:14
Kamala Masters
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge April 2013 at IMS - Forest Refuge

2013-04-27 Transforming Suffering into Happiness 60:55
James Baraz
The magic of mindfulness is how it weakens unwholesome (akusala) states of suffering and strengthens wholesome (kusala) states of well-being. This talk explains this process of alchemy: how greed, hatred and delusion are transformed into generosity, loving-kindness and wisdom.
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC 2013 IMCW Spring Retreat: Intimacy With Life

2013-04-13 Invitation into Lovingkindness 38:08
Larry Yang
Metta practice
Garrison Institute :  Transforming Ourselves, Transforming the World: A Mindfulness Meditation weekend for LGBTIQ Communities

2013-03-17 An Afternoon with Sylvia Boorstein: The Metta Sutta as the Complete Guide to Practice 2:59:45
Sylvia Boorstein
We’ll use the Metta Sutta, The Buddha’s Sermon in Impartial Kindness, as the template overview for practicing liberation from suffering. We’ll have time to study the sermon, practice both mindfulness and lovingkindness meditation, and have discussions and Q&A about obstacles to practice. This program is suitable for beginners.
New York Insight Meditation Center An Afternoon with Sylvia Boorstein: The Metta Sutta as the Complete Guide to Practice

2013-02-23 Guided Metta Meditation 40:37
Thanissara
Kindness for self, loved one, neutral person, adversary and all beings. Buddha's words on loving kindness.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center An Integrated Awakening: Insight Meditation Retreat

2013-02-23 Divine Abiding Of Metta 37:23
Kittisaro
Cultivating a mind that can meet adversity with loving kindness. Guided Metta meditation.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center An Integrated Awakening: Insight Meditation Retreat

2013-02-22 "S/he abused me!" Caring for feelings of mistreatment with mindfulness & loving-kindness 22:03
Ayya Tathaloka
Kalyanamitta group at the Peace Pagoda, Fremont
Dhammadharini

2013-02-20 Caring for Self, Caring for Other 60:06
Matthew Daniell
Using the Sedhaka sutta as a guide mindfulness and loving kindness are explored as tools for making our practice inwardly nourishing, and deeply relational and sensitive to fullness of our life.
Cambridge Insight Meditation Center

2013-02-13 Concentration, loving kindness, and peace. 55:27
Sylvia Boorstein
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Monday and Wednesday Talks

2013-01-21 20 Years of Dharma at Spirit Rock 54:57
Heather Sundberg
Heather's personal story of 20 years of practice at Spirit Rock, including teachings on the 4 Noble Truths, Lovingkindness and daily life practice.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Monday and Wednesday Talks

2013-01-18 Introduction To Mindfulness Retreat 1:10:11
Mark Coleman
An orientation to mindfulness and loving kindness retreat
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Living a Mindful and Compassionate Life: Insight and Metta Weekend

2013-01-11 The Power of Compassion 53:11
Mark Coleman
Through practice, the heart flowers by integrating mindfulness and metta (loving kindness) and through turning toward our suffering with kind attention and loving acceptance.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Essential Dharma

2013-01-02 Metta Meditation 39:36
Yanai Postelnik
Offering Loving Kindness to the neutral person and to oneself.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Embodying the Heart of Wisdom: New Year’s Retreat

2012-12-31 Turning Towards The Light - New Year Reflection 60:37
Greg Scharf
Reflections on loving kindness, forgiveness and Bodhicitta on New Years Eve.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Embodying the Heart of Wisdom: New Year’s Retreat

2012-12-29 Meditation: Lovingkindness 42:43
Hugh Byrne
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC 2012 IMCW New Year's Retreat: Awakening the Heart of Compassion

2012-12-28 Lovingkindness - Instruction and Meditation 33:46
Pat Coffey
Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC 2012 IMCW New Year's Retreat: Awakening the Heart of Compassion

2012-12-15 Reflections on Loving Kindness 28:54
Kirsten Kratz
Gaia House Kindness, Joy and Compassion

2012-11-27 The Divine Abodes - Week 1- The Naturalness of Lovingkindness (Metta) 1:29:14
Mark Nunberg
Class
Common Ground Meditation Center

2012-11-19 Loving-kindness for the Earth 24:51
Wes Nisker
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Thanksgiving Insight Retreat

2012-11-19 Working Skillfully with Pain 35:56
Mark Coleman
How to work with the inevitable pain and stress in life - using three methods: 1) Mindfulness, 2) Resourcsing, 3) Loving-kindness
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Thanksgiving Insight Retreat

2012-10-27 NeuroDharma of Love: Compassion and Lovingkindness Practice 18:07
Rick Hanson
Spirit Rock Meditation Center

2012-10-23 Loving Kindness Meditation 42:55
Winnie Nazarko
Description of the practice of loving-kindness (Metta) meditation. Brief guided meditation, questions and answers
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center Three-Month Retreat - Part 2

2012-10-16 Fundamentals of the Dharma: Self-Uncertainty 55:44
Rodney Smith
One of the more common emotional responses to practice is that at times we feel like we are failing in meditation. Nothing seems to be going according to the instructions. We try diligently and then hear that striving will not get us anywhere. We want to like ourselves but are full of self-contempt. We would like to wish everyone lovingkindness, but we do not feel that in our hearts. All of this has us feeling like a spiritual failure. One way to sidestep the thought that our practice is not going well is to remember that our practice is about self-knowledge, and self-knowledge is always working. Like a mirror that always reflects what it sees, it may not be showing us what we want to see, but it is always reflecting back what it sees. The practice is to accommodate what we see, no matter what is reflected back. Just let the reflection show us the state of affairs. Now comes the hard part. Do not attempt to change, judge, or get over what we see. If we want to do something, relax with what we see. Let the built up tension be dispelled. If we try to get over a problem before we understand what the nature of the problem is, we will further complicate our struggle. Much of our struggle is arising from the sense of being a personal failure. In a culture built upon evaluations and comparisons, many of us feel like we are defeated before we begin. We lead with self-uncertainty and for a Dharma practitioner that is the worst possible assumption. Awakening needs everything from us, and self-uncertainty holds us back in timidity. We have to address this assumption head on to end its tyrannical rule.
Seattle Insight Meditation Society
In collection: Fundamentals of the Dharma

2012-09-20 In Praise of Loving Kindness 53:52
Kirsten Kratz
This talks explores how the cultivation of qualities like Loving Kindness, Compassion, Generosity can support, nurture and bring about transformation, ease and healing on a personal level, and how, extending beyond the purely personal, these qualities can support us in responding skilfully to the issues of our times
Gaia House Cultivating Loving Kindness

2012-09-19 Loving Kindness and the Brahma Viharas 54:53
Jenny Wilks
An introductory overview of how the cultivation of metta relates to the other sublime abidings compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity.
Gaia House Cultivating Loving Kindness

2012-09-09 Care, Kindness and the End of Suffering 47:46
John Teasdale
Metta, loving kindness, is seen as the foundation for all practice, and, itself, as a direct path to awakening. This talk examines why and how.
Gaia House Mindfulness, Insight, Liberation: The Foundations of MBCT/SR

2012-09-02 Transforming Suffering into Happiness 64:22
James Baraz
The magic of mindfulness is how it weakens unwholesome (akusala) states of suffering and strengthens wholesome (kusala) states of well-being. This talk explains this process of alchemy: how greed, hatred and delusion are trnsformed into generosity, loving-kindness and wisdom.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Labor Day Retreat

2012-08-21 Generosity and Lovingkindness 37:03
Howard Cohn
Mission Dharma

2012-07-27 Cultivating Self-Compassion 53:47
Diana Winston
This talk explores the three components of self-compassion: 1. mindfulness to deal with self-critical thinking; 2. loving kindness, to increase our sense of love for ourselves; 3. and shared humanity, the recognition that we are not alone.
Spirit Rock Meditation Center Mindfulness in Education - A Retreat and Training

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